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9:48am Friday 11th July 2008
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A primary school has banned the chairman of the governors from its premises after he threatened to expose a series of violent incidents involving its pupils.
In one of the most serious episodes at Dorchester Primary School, a six-year-old boy stabbed a teacher with a pencil. In another, a boy was suspended after physically assaulting a girl.
"I simply want these behaviour issues dealt with for the good of the children and the school."
Chris John
But when chairman of the governors Chris John, 40, tried to raise concerns to the authorities about the children's behaviour he was barred from entering the school in Dorchester Road, Worcester Park, by Sutton Council.
Mr John, who has a daughter at the school, is only allowed in the grounds to pick up his child but has been warned if he enters the buildings the council "may have no option but to take further steps."
The governor of four years claims that there have been disturbing incidents involving five unruly children but feels the incidents are not being investigated sufficiently.
He also claimed that attempts were made to keep a disruptive pupil at home while the school was being officially inspected by Ofsted.
He said: "The school is very concerned about image, very much in line with the London borough of Sutton.
"Fur coat but nothing in the fridge is the way I would sum it up."
Mr John, had been approached by parents and teachers earlier in the year raising their concerns.
He said: "Staff didn't feel like there was any continuity in behaviour management, they felt some teachers were managing it well, but others were not.
"The governing body raised the issue with headteacher Louise Austin who resisted the need for any type of behaviour management policy."
Mr John said the pupil who had stabbed a teacher in the arm with a pencil on May 21 was a classic example of how the school's policies were failing.
He claimed this six-year-old was allowed to routinely wander the school as the staff had effectively given up on him attending classes.
A caretaker once found the youngster in the street outside school ground wearing his socks.
Mr John has met with MP Glenda Jackson who has written to the council to have the ban removed.
The National Governors' Association is also considering a complaint to the Secretary of State.
Mr John is seeking legal advice.
He said "I simply want these behaviour issues dealt with for the good of the children and the school."
A council spokesman said: "Issues have been raised at the school that affect Mr John.
"These issues are being investigated appropriately and until this has concluded, Mr John has been requested not to enter the school buildings."
Clare, Sutton says...
1:51pm Fri 11 Jul 08
Anon, Sutton says...
3:02pm Fri 11 Jul 08
Dr Howard Fredrics, Hampton wick says...
3:57pm Fri 11 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
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Miss T M Young, Croydon says...
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Les, Surrey says...
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Anon, sutton says...
10:03pm Fri 11 Jul 08
John, Surrey says...
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Jan, Sutton, UK says...
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anon, mitcham says...
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Anon, Sutton says...
11:52pm Sun 13 Jul 08
sarah hillman-mawer, worcester park says...
1:22am Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon, Worcester Park says...
6:26am Mon 14 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
9:53am Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon1, Worcester Park says...
11:05am Mon 14 Jul 08
anon, worcester park says...
11:23am Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon, Sutton says...
1:27pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon1, Worcester Park says...
1:33pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
3:59pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon, WP says...
5:16pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Mrs Lyn Jarvis, Worcester Park says...
7:13pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Anonymous, Worcester Park says...
7:21pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Chris John, 979-510 says...
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Anonymous, Worcester Park says...
7:34pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
7:49pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Anonymous, Worcester Park says...
8:05pm Mon 14 Jul 08
ANON, WP says...
8:41pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Carol, Worcester Park says...
9:02pm Mon 14 Jul 08
DOrchester Mum, Worcester Park says...
9:11pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Concerned Parent, Sutton says...
9:46pm Mon 14 Jul 08
anonymous, says...
10:02pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Pete, Surbiton says...
10:07pm Mon 14 Jul 08
anon, WP says...
10:11pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Carol wrote:One Deputy was promoted to be head of another school, and the other had a change of career. please get your facts right before you sling mud
I recall two of the schools deputies leaving recently too.
anon, WP says...
10:20pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Carol, 917-077 says...
10:23pm Mon 14 Jul 08
anon, sutton says...
10:27pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Anon, N Cheam says...
11:40pm Mon 14 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
12:16am Tue 15 Jul 08
Another Anon, WP says...
8:56am Tue 15 Jul 08
anon wrote:What any good governor would do is work with the LB to resolve such issues.
Mr John is doing what any good govenor should do in high lighting problems that are not being resolved at school level. For this he is being victimised, would he have been banned if he hadn't chosen to bring this to light? Are the allegations about him true or just a smoke screen. I know for a fact his allegations are true the behaviour and language of some children at Dorchester would not be tolerated in prisons so why should staff have to put up with it. Classroom assistants have to deal with these problem children while teachers have to teach the children who behave. Without classroom assistants classes would be disrupted but i'm sure taking abuse and violence isnt in their job discription as one of their duties.
Dorchester Mum, Surrey says...
9:29am Tue 15 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
9:45am Tue 15 Jul 08
Dorchester Mum, Surrey says...
10:07am Tue 15 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
10:40am Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, says...
10:45am Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, says...
10:46am Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon, Stonecot Hill says...
10:56am Tue 15 Jul 08
Dorchester Mum, Surrey says...
10:58am Tue 15 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
10:59am Tue 15 Jul 08
Parent Dorchester, Sutton says...
11:25am Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, Sutton says...
11:42am Tue 15 Jul 08
carly, london says...
11:43am Tue 15 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
11:53am Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon, Sutton says...
1:29pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, sutton says...
1:37pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
1:54pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon wrote:The allegations are all true and I have the evidence to substantiate it! As for Dorchester being a good school. I think the answer is yes but it could be so much better if the issues I have raised (and the ones I have not raised publicly)were dealt with. When I was Chair of Governors I would have assured you unreservedly but given how I have been treated and how some parents have been treated then I would have to say that you need to consider all the options. But I can assure you that there are good teachers in the school and excellent support staff but they can only do their job if supported when necessary.
Oh my god! Just read the article and some of your comments. My daughter starts Dorchester in September. Is this a good school or are all these alegations true? Can somebody please tell me. Thank you.
Mr Chris John, London says...
1:56pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon wrote:The allegations are all true and I have the evidence to substantiate it! As for Dorchester being a good school. I think the answer is yes but it could be so much better if the issues I have raised (and the ones I have not raised publicly)were dealt with. When I was Chair of Governors I would have assured you unreservedly but given how I have been treated and how some parents have been treated then I would have to say that you need to consider all the options. But I can assure you that there are good teachers in the school and excellent support staff but they can only do their job if supported when necessary.
Oh my god! Just read the article and some of your comments. My daughter starts Dorchester in September. Is this a good school or are all these alegations true? Can somebody please tell me. Thank you.
Mr Chris John, London says...
2:00pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon wrote:The allegations are all true and I have the evidence to substantiate it! As for Dorchester being a good school. I think the answer is yes but it could be so much better if the issues I have raised (and the ones I have not raised publicly)were dealt with. When I was Chair of Governors I would have assured you unreservedly but given how I have been treated and how some parents have been treated then I would have to say that you need to consider all the options. But I can assure you that there are good teachers in the school and excellent support staff but they can only do their job if supported when necessary.
Oh my god! Just read the article and some of your comments. My daughter starts Dorchester in September. Is this a good school or are all these alegations true? Can somebody please tell me. Thank you.
Mr Chris John, London says...
2:12pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon wrote:I think you should be looking at why a Chair of Governors was ever placed in this position by the school in the 1st place. The issues raised have NOT been dealt with in an appropriate manner as you suggest. Ask yourself the question why on earth would I stick my neck on the 'block' like this? I have nothing to gain personally from any of this. But certain people at the school may have a lot to lose if the truth is finally revealed. As for the so called '5' children...I fought hard to get them more support, I spoke with teachers, support staff, parents and advisers from the LEA and I did as much as I could but I was met with resistance and dismissal for daring to challenge a system that in my opinion and the opinion of professionals was not working as well as it should. Oh and I'm still waiting to meet with LB Sutton who seem to be 'riding the storm' rather than talking.
I think it is in fact Mr John that should be apologising both to the 5 children who are now the subject of much speculation as to who they may be, and to parents, both current and prospective, for causing such unfounded concern. The issues raised (as with many other schools) were and are being dealt with in an appropriate manner but it is unrealistic to expect anything to change overnight. A high profile campaign by you, causing much upset and concern is not only an abuse of information you were privy to in your EX capacity as Chair of Governors, but an abuse of trust placed in you by staff, parents and pupils alike. Everybody wants to work together to continue to improve all aspects of the school, and all this fiasco has succeeded in doing is hindering this. Well done Mr john!
Dorchester Mum, Worcester Park says...
2:17pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon wrote:I had ducked out of this forum because I've made my comments and my point has been made. But I felt compelled to respond to yours, and the other prospective parents queries about the suitablility of this school.
Oh my god! Just read the article and some of your comments. My daughter starts Dorchester in September. Is this a good school or are all these alegations true? Can somebody please tell me. Thank you.
Parent Dorchester, Sutton says...
2:31pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon, W Park says...
4:02pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Chris John wrote:Yes I do agree that these concerns should be taken seriously, even if it came out there are no problems, what harm would it do to investigate? I am sure a lot more parents minds would be put at ease who have children at Dorchester.
The solution to this problem is simple; The LEA should apologise to me for the shameful way they have treated me and then work with the school to improve all the issues I identified as Chair of Governors. In fact, I'd be happy to forego the apology if they I actually took my concerns seriously.
Anon, WP says...
4:42pm Tue 15 Jul 08
ANON, Surrey says...
5:05pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
5:19pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, worcester park says...
5:23pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Sheila, WP says...
6:37pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, worcester park says...
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anon, WP says...
7:17pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, wp says...
7:49pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon, WP says...
7:55pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Anonymous, Anonymous, Sutton says...
9:09pm Tue 15 Jul 08
anon, wp says...
9:39pm Tue 15 Jul 08
ANON, Worc Park says...
9:53pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
11:48pm Tue 15 Jul 08
Anon, Cheam says...
8:50am Wed 16 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
8:54am Wed 16 Jul 08
annon, wp says...
10:13am Wed 16 Jul 08
Parent, WP says...
11:22am Wed 16 Jul 08
Clare wrote:It obvious to anyone with a half a brain that there is something going on. Are the issues raised simply being ignored to try and protect the reputation of one person by discrediting another? Anyway, someone needs to get both sides talking, however difficult that might be :-(
An absolute disgrace. Chris John is standing up for what is RIGHT and the other parents of the school should be standing tall beside him otherwise it is like saying that bad behaviour is tolerated in this school. I feel sorry for this man and give him my full support.
graham, WP says...
12:35pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
12:50pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Graham, WP says...
1:22pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
1:42pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Governor, Merton says...
2:28pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Private, Cheam says...
7:35pm Wed 16 Jul 08
DP Parent, Surrey says...
7:48pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Prospective Parent, Sutton says...
10:08pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Anon, WP says...
10:12pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Prospective Parent, Sutton says...
10:20pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
10:28pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Prospective Parent, Sutton says...
10:34pm Wed 16 Jul 08
anon, London says...
11:06pm Wed 16 Jul 08
Current Parent, North Cheam says...
11:57pm Wed 16 Jul 08
anon, worcester park says...
7:25am Thu 17 Jul 08
Staff Member DP, WP says...
7:51am Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
7:57am Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, worcester park says...
8:20am Thu 17 Jul 08
Staff Member DP wrote:How dare you!! I am a very reasonable person and I am entitled to my opinion, perhaps it is you who should think about whether or not you have chosen the right career! After all we are here for the children not governed by which year group we will be allocated to next year!! That is remark is totally irrelevant to the point in question and not for the public domain. I do agree parents do make choices by what they see and hear but they will be making choices about their childrens future based on hearsay not fact as we have not yet been presented will ALL the facts yet and thats all I was trying to say. I stand by what I said.
Did the HT promise you a promotion to post this? :-) May I ask if the allegations are not true then why did a respected newspaper print them? I do n0t think any reasonable person who does not work at the school would think the same as you. Remember Parents makes choices by what the see and hear and get a gut feeling for. Staff makes choices by what they are told to do and say and where they might be next year if they dont 'toe the line' :-( You have to also ask yourself why a previous part time Deputy has moved sideways and gone full time at a new school?
DP Parent, WP says...
9:52am Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:So when do you think staff will be presented with facts?
Staff Member DP wrote:How dare you!! I am a very reasonable person and I am entitled to my opinion, perhaps it is you who should think about whether or not you have chosen the right career! After all we are here for the children not governed by which year group we will be allocated to next year!! That is remark is totally irrelevant to the point in question and not for the public domain. I do agree parents do make choices by what they see and hear but they will be making choices about their childrens future based on hearsay not fact as we have not yet been presented will ALL the facts yet and thats all I was trying to say. I stand by what I said.
Did the HT promise you a promotion to post this? :-) May I ask if the allegations are not true then why did a respected newspaper print them? I do n0t think any reasonable person who does not work at the school would think the same as you. Remember Parents makes choices by what the see and hear and get a gut feeling for. Staff makes choices by what they are told to do and say and where they might be next year if they dont 'toe the line' :-( You have to also ask yourself why a previous part time Deputy has moved sideways and gone full time at a new school?
Jill, W Park says...
10:31am Thu 17 Jul 08
sam, croydon says...
11:29am Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
12:53pm Thu 17 Jul 08
ANON, worcesterpark says...
5:17pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Another parent of Dorchester, Worcester Pk says...
5:53pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, sutton says...
5:57pm Thu 17 Jul 08
ANON wrote:What do you suggest we do with these children then? Give up? Ignore it? If you have something constructive to say then please say it or if you can offer a true solution then please feel free, cos it seems to me you don't know what you are talking about.
well done mr john about time all these schools stopped covering up the truth far too many children are just left wondering round the schools as teachers and heads are at a loss what to try next well get them out and let the children that want to learn get on with it instead of all the time being wasted on these un greatful kids instead of **** footing around them teach the ones that want to be their im soooo pleased mr johns is not putting his head in the sand like some other school in worcester park and to all the new parents wondering what to do about putting there children into a school if a school tells you there is no bullying at there school then avoid them as all schools have bullies its just covering up and the teachers are powerless over these children and the kids no this thats why there act like this i think get them out and use the place for children that want to learn have the places also if you think its only primary schools then your in for a shock as the children with these needs will get in to the chosen school over yours if it comes to it believe me been there got the t shirt what is this country coming to no wonder people are moving away to all you heads and teachers who are powerless get some bottle and stand up for yourselves stop the cover up be proud of the school and don t get dragged down in the results of good school whats the point of a good report from ofsted if the kids are running rings round you and YES I DO NO WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT I SEE IT EVERY DAY. i fully back you all the way well done mr john
DP Staff, WP says...
6:16pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, Sutton says...
6:21pm Thu 17 Jul 08
sam, croydon says...
6:50pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:The trouble is not always down to a lack of discipline but because of our present governments inclusion policy. If a child has special needs they are more often than not in mainstream schools. Unfortunately, because of the diversitys of their needs, there is not always the staff qualified to support their needs. The "unruly" children perhaps need help that they are not getting because their needs are not being recognised or dealt with. This will obviously also effect those children with mainstream needs.Mr. Blunkett has a lot to answer for!
Everyone seems to know who these unruley children are/where so why didn'nt the parents step in do something about thier behaviour problems. If my child was causing such problems at school and distrubting classes so much that it affected other children's education I would sort this out with them at home.It wouldn't go on for much longer. What exactly do the parents have to say? What discipline do these parents show these children at home? Not alot I imagine.Maybe they should have a meeting with the Head and try to resolve this as all this hearsay is ruining a good schools reputation.
ex DP staff, Surrey says...
7:16pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Anonymous, Cheam says...
7:43pm Thu 17 Jul 08
DP Parent, WP says...
7:44pm Thu 17 Jul 08
sam wrote:I'm afraid you sound like a militant teacher blaming everyone else and not accepting any responsibility to teach ALL children. I admire Mr John. At least he was prepared to stand up what he believed in rather than being an ostrich!!!! Shame on the Governing Body for not supporting him.
anon wrote:The trouble is not always down to a lack of discipline but because of our present governments inclusion policy. If a child has special needs they are more often than not in mainstream schools. Unfortunately, because of the diversitys of their needs, there is not always the staff qualified to support their needs. The "unruly" children perhaps need help that they are not getting because their needs are not being recognised or dealt with. This will obviously also effect those children with mainstream needs.Mr. Blunkett has a lot to answer for!
Everyone seems to know who these unruley children are/where so why didn'nt the parents step in do something about thier behaviour problems. If my child was causing such problems at school and distrubting classes so much that it affected other children's education I would sort this out with them at home.It wouldn't go on for much longer. What exactly do the parents have to say? What discipline do these parents show these children at home? Not alot I imagine.Maybe they should have a meeting with the Head and try to resolve this as all this hearsay is ruining a good schools reputation.
Anon, Worcester Park says...
7:50pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Anon, WP says...
7:51pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, Sutton says...
8:17pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, north cheam says...
8:17pm Thu 17 Jul 08
New Parent, Stonecot Hill says...
8:29pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:Hi there, My child is due to start reception this coming September and due to all this huge mess at Dorchester and I am not sure I want him to be assosiated with a School that has got so much bad publicity. From one article there are so many opions and arguments going on I don't know who to believe and know don't know what is best for my child. Was your child due to start September too?
There is a lot of image protecting on this post. Teachers trying to protect their school image, Mr John trying to protect his already somewhat tarnished image. At the end of the day its simple Mr John does not like the headteacher and is on some propaganda campaign. My childwill not be attending the school in September but not due to the reputation that Mr John is spouting, but purely I would not want to be associated with a board of governors who deal with issues in such a marxist way. Well done Mr John, for the interest your plight is attracting, but please spare a thought for the children in all of this it is their reputations you are destroying too!!!
anon, cheam says...
8:41pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:Here Here!
There is a lot of image protecting on this post. Teachers trying to protect their school image, Mr John trying to protect his already somewhat tarnished image. At the end of the day its simple Mr John does not like the headteacher and is on some propaganda campaign. My childwill not be attending the school in September but not due to the reputation that Mr John is spouting, but purely I would not want to be associated with a board of governors who deal with issues in such a marxist way. Well done Mr John, for the interest your plight is attracting, but please spare a thought for the children in all of this it is their reputations you are destroying too!!!
Chris John, London says...
8:51pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Anon wrote:I wanted to ensure that there was a consistent approach across the school regardless of the teacher,LSA or individual child. Too many mixed messages were appearing and I know that staff felt unsupported because even when a child escalated their level of disruptive behaviour the appropriate sanctions did not eacalate to match that behaviour. I also felt that the 'well behaved' children were being failed because there daily routine at school was continually disrupted and yet nothing appeared to be done to support both the children causing the disruptive behaviour or the ones affected by it. I also felt that a lack of appropriate intervention, in effect, allowed a child to repeat their behaviour and 'set themselves' up for exclusion time and time again. It would be interesting if the HT will publish the results of the anonymous staff survey that I had to 'push' through with another Governor which identified several issues within the staff and, low and behold, behaviour was a substantial concern to staff at the school. I have the results of that survey for any interested parties!
Chris
After reading some of the comments above . . . what were you trying to resolve with these behavioural issues? Do you, like some comments written, feel that the children should be out of the school permanently?
Chris John, London says...
9:01pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:I do spare continual thoughts for the children. As for my 'tarnished' image as you put it, that will be dealt with in the near future via the courts. I am sorry that I had to raise the issue in this way but the HT, Governing Body and LEA were not prepared to listen to my genuine concerns. As I said before, when you have had to comfort a member of staff in floods of tears because of sheer frustration because she was not being supported by management, when you've had to listen to a parent frightened to complain to the HT because and I quote " She's only started talking to me again" and when you have witnessed a child go missing only to be found wandering the streets in his socks them maybe you would have taken the same action as me.
There is a lot of image protecting on this post. Teachers trying to protect their school image, Mr John trying to protect his already somewhat tarnished image. At the end of the day its simple Mr John does not like the headteacher and is on some propaganda campaign. My childwill not be attending the school in September but not due to the reputation that Mr John is spouting, but purely I would not want to be associated with a board of governors who deal with issues in such a marxist way. Well done Mr John, for the interest your plight is attracting, but please spare a thought for the children in all of this it is their reputations you are destroying too!!!
anon, wp says...
9:04pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John wrote:I am as I am sure many others would be interested to see the results.How do we get to see them? Perhaps they could shed more light on the debate.
Anon wrote: Chris After reading some of the comments above . . . what were you trying to resolve with these behavioural issues? Do you, like some comments written, feel that the children should be out of the school permanently?I wanted to ensure that there was a consistent approach across the school regardless of the teacher,LSA or individual child. Too many mixed messages were appearing and I know that staff felt unsupported because even when a child escalated their level of disruptive behaviour the appropriate sanctions did not eacalate to match that behaviour. I also felt that the 'well behaved' children were being failed because there daily routine at school was continually disrupted and yet nothing appeared to be done to support both the children causing the disruptive behaviour or the ones affected by it. I also felt that a lack of appropriate intervention, in effect, allowed a child to repeat their behaviour and 'set themselves' up for exclusion time and time again. It would be interesting if the HT will publish the results of the anonymous staff survey that I had to 'push' through with another Governor which identified several issues within the staff and, low and behold, behaviour was a substantial concern to staff at the school. I have the results of that survey for any interested parties!
Chris John, London says...
9:07pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon, wp says...
9:27pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John wrote:So do we approach the HT for the results or is it confidential in school? Or how do we read your "unedited" version? Will it help me as a parent decide whether or not I should send my children to DP? Or is it just another version of mud slinging?
I suggesting asking the Governing Body to produce the results. Failing that I think I have a copy of the original 'unedited' version somewhere ;-)
sam, croydon says...
9:33pm Thu 17 Jul 08
anon wrote:If your child was lactose intolerant, would you expect them to drink a glass of milk each day? Or would you complain when they had a rash, vomited etc?
How comes as soon as a child is misbehaving they have ADHD or ADD! It seems to be the new label that we can use to excuse bad behaviour
anon, sutton says...
9:45pm Thu 17 Jul 08
sam wrote:As have I, who is also a TA working at DP and with my extensive training helps me to deal with and recognise these disorders everyday.
anon wrote: How comes as soon as a child is misbehaving they have ADHD or ADD! It seems to be the new label that we can use to excuse bad behaviourIf your child was lactose intolerant, would you expect them to drink a glass of milk each day? Or would you complain when they had a rash, vomited etc? Back in the 60's my brother misbehaved, as you so nicely put it. I now see someone whose education suffered therefor in turn their career and so therefor their life.Maybe with the right label he could have acheived far more than he was able to as he was(and is )obviously intelligent. By the way, autism is a very real disorder that is diagnosed by more than one professional over a period of time and presents very differently from adhd, yet the two can often be combined. One very real disorder is ignorance. I thank God for people like Anonymous, Cheam obviously a T.A. who has bothered to find out the possible problems the children she works with may have.
ANON, wp says...
9:50pm Thu 17 Jul 08
New Parent wrote:It surely would be hasty to consider withdrawing your child from the school on the basis of a one sided newspaper article and the largely anonymous posts on this forum. I am sure you will agree that it would be unprofessional for the HT and the Governors to respond by posting on this website. I am confident they are taking all necessary steps to deal with Mr John's allegations. Two of my children are at Dorchester whilst the eldest has completed her education there. My family believe it is a great school; standards are rapidly rising, the huge majority of children love going to school there and have fun whilst learning. The school has a fantastic community feel and very dedicated staff. If you are feeling concerned why not phone the school and ask to have a look round and a chat with the HT or another senior manager? I am sure this will put your mind at rest. I can guarantee that you won't see badly behaved children roaming freely around the school unchecked, but you will see pleasant well behaved pupils enjoying the end of term festivites. If you reread the posts on this forum parents are largely in agreement that Dorchester is a good school where their children have received a good education. Lastly I would question whether Mr John has the children's interests foremost in his heart or whether he is more interested in stirring up trouble in a situation where there appears to have been concern over his position as Governor, the details of which are unknown. I would also question his integrity given his apparent willingness to disclose confidential information in this forum and to the paper!
anon wrote: There is a lot of image protecting on this post. Teachers trying to protect their school image, Mr John trying to protect his already somewhat tarnished image. At the end of the day its simple Mr John does not like the headteacher and is on some propaganda campaign. My childwill not be attending the school in September but not due to the reputation that Mr John is spouting, but purely I would not want to be associated with a board of governors who deal with issues in such a marxist way. Well done Mr John, for the interest your plight is attracting, but please spare a thought for the children in all of this it is their reputations you are destroying too!!!Hi there, My child is due to start reception this coming September and due to all this huge mess at Dorchester and I am not sure I want him to be assosiated with a School that has got so much bad publicity. From one article there are so many opions and arguments going on I don't know who to believe and know don't know what is best for my child. Was your child due to start September too?
Ex member of staff, London says...
10:06pm Thu 17 Jul 08
ANON, WP says...
10:18pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Ex member of staff wrote:I dont think so!!!! Just a caring parent that fells sad that such a happy school is being so ill thought of.
Ah, the headteacher speaks at last!!!!!!!
anon, north cheam says...
10:26pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John wrote:I would have preferred to to it in a gentlemanly internal fashion rather than setting off on some trouble stirring propaganda media frenzy.
anon wrote: There is a lot of image protecting on this post. Teachers trying to protect their school image, Mr John trying to protect his already somewhat tarnished image. At the end of the day its simple Mr John does not like the headteacher and is on some propaganda campaign. My childwill not be attending the school in September but not due to the reputation that Mr John is spouting, but purely I would not want to be associated with a board of governors who deal with issues in such a marxist way. Well done Mr John, for the interest your plight is attracting, but please spare a thought for the children in all of this it is their reputations you are destroying too!!!I do spare continual thoughts for the children. As for my \'tarnished\' image as you put it, that will be dealt with in the near future via the courts. I am sorry that I had to raise the issue in this way but the HT, Governing Body and LEA were not prepared to listen to my genuine concerns. As I said before, when you have had to comfort a member of staff in floods of tears because of sheer frustration because she was not being supported by management, when you\'ve had to listen to a parent frightened to complain to the HT because and I quote \" She\'s only started talking to me again\" and when you have witnessed a child go missing only to be found wandering the streets in his socks them maybe you would have taken the same action as me.
Anon, Cheam says...
10:26pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Anon, Cheam says...
10:30pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Chris John, London says...
11:55pm Thu 17 Jul 08
Mr Chris John, London says...
11:56pm Thu 17 Jul 08
DP Staff, WP says...
12:00am Fri 18 Jul 08
anon wrote:Just ask the HT and see what response you get....or should that be 'light the blue touch paper and stand well back'
Chris John wrote:So do we approach the HT for the results or is it confidential in school? Or how do we read your "unedited" version? Will it help me as a parent decide whether or not I should send my children to DP? Or is it just another version of mud slinging?
I suggesting asking the Governing Body to produce the results. Failing that I think I have a copy of the original 'unedited' version somewhere ;-)
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Sheila take a bow, Sutton says...
10:25am Fri 11 Jul 08
why do parents put up with this? why arnt they all down at the school protesting, forcing the school to publicly investigate?
If you play dead, they will treat you as dead!